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Who is behind Tinfoil Hat Dating?

Is Tinfoil Hat Dating a secret-service honeypot? Is someone here making fun of critics of the system, or is there simply an ordinary “conspiracy theorist” behind this website? Find out everything you need to know about Tinfoil Hat Dating on this page.

Team

Who is behind Tinfoil Hat Dating?

Is Tinfoil Hat Dating a secret-service honeypot? Is someone here making fun of critics of the system, or is there simply an ordinary “conspiracy theorist” behind this website? Find out everything you need to know about Tinfoil Hat Dating on this page.

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The Tinfoil Hat Dating team

Strictly speaking, there isn’t really a “team” in the usual sense, because Tinfoil Hat Dating is essentially a genuine one-man project. I’m the person behind it: Mark Etting. I’m originally from Germany, but since 2016 I’ve been living as a digital nomad and traveling the world.

The idea for an alternative social networking platform was born in the spring of 2022. Back then, two friends and I worked together on a concept. It was clear to us from the start that the success of such a platform would depend heavily on the right name. The name had to be catchy while also sending a provocative message to everyone who conforms to the system. After endless brainstorming sessions and countless phone calls, we agreed: there could be no better name for such a project than Tinfoil Hat Dating.

Today, as of September 2025, I handle every aspect of the business on my own—from platform development and marketing to day-to-day support. Still, I do have a little backup: a programmer helps me with technical optimizations that I can’t handle on my own.

Did you know?

On Tinfoil Hat Dating, you can not only find a suitable partner, but also make new friends and connect with people interested in emigration.

Who is Mark Etting?

I was born in September 1983 in Kassel, a city with a population of just under 200,000 today, located in the heart of North Hessen.

Ever since early childhood, I sensed a deep, undeniable truth: I didn’t fit into this system. Not in kindergarten, where the first nonsensical rules restricted my freedom, and not later in school, which felt like a corset tightening around my mind. I developed such a strong aversion to school and teachers that, right up until graduation, I only ever put in as much effort as was absolutely necessary.

The school system couldn't break my spirit

Today, I am deeply convinced that if I hadn’t developed this strong aversion to the rigid school system, my life would likely have followed the same predetermined path as so many others—a path shaped by ten to thirteen years of “brainwashing.” But this indoctrination didn’t work on me!

Maybe it was luck, maybe it was fate, but I was able to maintain my independent, critical thinking even after I left school and, starting in 2006, further hone it thanks to the emergence of alternative media.

In my early twenties, it suddenly dawned on me: with just my weak secondary school diploma, I probably wouldn’t get very far in this society. While my friends were already finishing their high school diplomas or completing their vocational training, I asked myself, “What am I actually supposed to do with my life? I can’t possibly do what everyone else is doing!”

School and vocational training

In my early twenties, I was finally ready to consciously engage with the education system—this time of my own volition and with the goal of earning degrees so that one day I could land a well-paying job within the system, of course. So I went back to school, and suddenly, studying came surprisingly easily to me. Subjects that had barely interested me before suddenly took shape and sparked a real passion in me—especially anything related to economics. To my own surprise, I even developed a certain enthusiasm for math and statistics.

My second educational path

Stations & degrees

  • 2002 – Higher Commercial School, Kassel

  • 2003 – Apprenticeship as an office clerk, Kassel

  • 2005 – University of Applied Sciences Entrance Qualification (Fachabi) in Business & Administration, Kassel

  • 2006 – Bachelor of Business Administration, Erfurt

  • 2010 – Master’s Degree in Dialog Marketing & Communication Management, Kassel

Search Engine Optimization

During my studies, I discovered a passion that would shape my future: web development and search engine optimization (SEO). Since there were no relevant subjects or courses at the university of applied sciences or at university at the time, I taught myself everything. I built websites and conducted experiments to figure out the best ways to influence Google’s search results through black-hat SEO. I also made this topic the focus of my master’s thesis in 2013.

Looking back, I have to admit that my seven years of college didn’t do much for my career. I never used my degree to get a relevant job at a company.

Nevertheless, my studies were worthwhile for me in that I learned how to study efficiently, set goals for myself, and consistently achieve them. That helped me enormously when I later started my own business.

A 9-to-5 Job Wasn’t Possible!

After completing my master’s degree, I started working in the SEO department of an online marketing agency in Munich for five months. However, day-to-day life at the agency turned out to be stressful and poorly paid. So I dropped out of the trainee program and moved to Switzerland, where I worked as an in-house SEO trainee at a large e-commerce company in Zug. But I didn’t last even seven months there either: the thought of spending my life on the hamster wheel of a rigid work routine was unbearable to me.

So I made my decisive choice: self-employment. My ultimate goal was clear and uncompromising: never again a 9-to-5 job. Never again being jolted awake in the morning by the shrill sound of an alarm clock. Instead, a source of income that would free me from the constraints of time and place. Freedom—or at least relative freedom—became my top priority from then on.

Goodbye, Germoney

In 2016, I turned the page: I said goodbye to the country where I was born and had spent my entire life up to that point. My destination at the time was Paraguay. Together with a friend who had already traveled there twice, I set off for South America.

In Paraguay, I applied for my permanent residence permit—a step that would secure the country as my new home. Paraguay is very popular among European expats, as well as many others, because the immigration requirements are simple, straightforward, and affordable. Perhaps that is precisely why countless reports have been circulating in the German media for years, lecturing readers on why it’s better not to emigrate there.

Did you know?

Tinfoil Hat Dating is a worldwide dating platform where people from different countries and cultures with similar values and interests can fall in love and network.

Always with the laptop, here in a bar in Thailand, 2018

Independent at last

For me, Paraguay was the perfect starting point for my freelance career. I began building my client base there within the first few months: I offered my SEO services to several online marketing agencies in the DACH region and worked as a freelancer.

The big advantage for entrepreneurs: Paraguay applies what is known as territorial taxation. As a result, income earned abroad remains tax-free in Paraguay. For me, that meant ideal conditions for a successful start as an independent entrepreneur.

Bangkok, Thailand

Despite this promising start, I stayed in Paraguay for just under a year. I felt the urge to move on—my sights were set on Asia. After an eventful journey, I finally ended up in Thailand, where my life took an unexpected turn: I met a woman, fell in love, and we decided to move in together. We lived together in Bangkok for the next few years.

I spent the entire COVID-19 period in Thailand and watched with horror as the Land of Smiles turned into the Land of Mask Fetishists. Even a year after the so-called pandemic had been declared over in many countries, people there were still driving alone through the streets wearing masks. Although I was used to a fair amount of conformity to the system and blind obedience from my own culture, what I witnessed there shook me to the core. I seriously asked myself whether I wanted to live in a country like that, with such submissive people.

Still, that time also had a positive impact on me—not only because of the relationship, but also because I had the opportunity to get to know Thai and Asian culture. Although the COVID-19 restrictions made many things more difficult, I’m grateful for the enriching insights into Asian culture that I gained during that time. And yet: Neither Thailand nor my partner at the time managed to settle me down. My wanderlust and the urge for freedom and change were simply too strong.

My awakening moment

I noticed the injustice in this system early on. I asked myself: Why do countries have to wage war against one another? Why are people capable of killing others even though they’ve never met before? Why do some people live in abundance while others have nothing? Why does an election never really change anything—except that life becomes even more expensive afterward and the tax burden on ordinary people grows?

In my early twenties, I wanted to understand the world in depth. I devoured documentaries on a wide variety of topics, which I downloaded from the internet. I was particularly fascinated by everything related to ancient civilizations—the Incas, the Maya, and the mysterious pyramids of Egypt. Their mysteries and secrets left me with the impression that official historiography was only telling half the truth.

One day, I came across a talk by a former Greenpeace activist named Werner Altnickel, whom I had never heard of before. In that program, he was sitting alongside a man named Jo Conrad, whom I had also never heard of. I downloaded the program and watched the talk—and all I could think was, “Wow! It’s crazy what they’re up to over in the U.S. It’s a good thing we don’t have anything like that here in Germany.” Here’s a link to that exact program from 2006.

About two weeks later, on a sunny summer day in 2006, I was mowing the lawn as I did every week. Suddenly, I froze: there were long contrails in the sky, some of which crossed over each other—and some even seemed to suggest that the plane that had created them had flown in a curve. I left the lawnmower in the garden, ran into the house, grabbed my digital camera, and started photographing the sky.

At that moment, only one thought crossed my mind: “No way! That’s exactly what that Greenpeace guy was talking about on that show!” The photos I took back in the summer of 2006 still exist and are included below.

Fascinated by my discovery, all I could think was, “I absolutely have to share this with everyone!” So I sat down at my computer, registered on the Kasseler Newspapers forum (HNA) which still existed back then—and uploaded my photos there. I wrote that airplanes were spraying various substances, such as barium and others, over Kassel—and that my pictures would provide proof of this. To be honest, I was convinced that my post would be deleted by the moderators in no time. So I didn’t check the forum again that day.

Two days later, at breakfast, I almost fell off my chair as I leafed through the print edition of the HNA. There was an article with a photo of the sky full of contrails. It was accompanied by the headline: “Crazy discussion in the HNA online forum – mysterious streaks in the sky”.

I could hardly believe it. Not only had my post not been deleted—it had since generated over 180 replies. To my disappointment, most of the replies ridiculed my claims. The print edition’s article included nine comments from the forum: eight of them mocking, one critical. What was particularly interesting: Four of these mocking comments came from the same user. Even back then, I realized how manipulative reportingcan be, especially when it comes to controversial topics.

The next morning, the next chapter followed: HNA published a follow-up article in the daily newspaper and explained that they had contacted Greenpeace in Hamburg. A spokesperson there assured them: “There is no evidence of chemtrails.”

For me, there was a huge contradiction. On the one hand, there was Werner Altnickel, the former Greenpeace activist, who explained in a way that made sense to me that chemtrails existed and that he had lost his job at Greenpeace after trying to raise awareness about the issue there. Shortly afterward, I saw the streaks in the sky with my own eyes. And then, suddenly, the official line was: “It’s all nonsense.” What was I supposed to believe now?

HNA Articles & Chemtrail Photos from 2006

I knew: I needed answers right then!

On the very day the second HNA article was published , I found Werner Altnickel’s phone number online —he was the Greenpeace activist featured in the TV report. I spoke with him on the phone for two hours, and afterward I had even more questions than before. Werner didn’t just talk about chemtrails, but also about many other topics I’d never heard of or thought about before. After the call, I didn’t know how to make sense of what I’d just heard. Today I know that he was right about everything he told me back then.

Based on this experience, I can now relate fairly well to the average person who has spent their entire life consuming almost nothing but mainstream media propaganda. How could someone like that react to the things a supposed “conspiracy theorist” puts in front of them with anything other than rejection? They don’t know what you’re talking about because they’ve never heard of it before. They can’t assess whether the information presented to them is valid—and what’s more, it threatens their comfort zone. Most people are not receptive to new ideas anyway, especially not when those ideas could have negative consequences for their own worldview or way of life.

Through Hollywood and constant media coverage, the average person has learned that anyone who does not share the system’s opinion is either a madman or a Nazi—and you can’t argue with people like that anyway. This fact shows me just how perfectly this system is structured. It’s practically indestructible. It would only become vulnerable if the system were to lose control of the media—and that will never happen.

The CDs that Werner Altnickel promised to send me never arrived. And yet my path continued.

Through the HNA forum, I was suddenly contacted by someone I now consider my best friend: He was studying abroad at the time and had already had his “aha” moment a few years earlier. Since he regularly followed the discussions on the HNA forum, he came across my post and wrote to me: “I know someone who can explain everything to you.” I was given a phone number in Kassel. When I called it, a deep, husky voice answered—one that didn’t inspire much trust, but still stirred something inside me. The words were clear: “If you really want to know how the world works—and how we’re all being duped—then come see me. I can show you everything.”

I remember exactly how I gave my girlfriend at the time the address I was supposed to drive to. I told her: “If you don’t hear from me within the next five hours, call the police andgive them this address.” My gut instinct warned me, but my curiosity was stronger.

When the door opened, there stood a man about 1.70 m tall, in his mid-fifties, with gray hair and a beer belly—enveloped in a cloud of cigarette smoke that drifted straight toward me and into the stairwell. To my great relief, the man didn’t seem particularly threatening, so I went inside.

What followed would change my life. I spent six hours with Wolfgang in front of his computer while he showed me a flood of images: company logos with pyramids and the all-seeing eye, buildings with Masonic symbolism, explanations of the 33 degrees of Freemasonry, alternative theories about the 9/11 attacks, the idea that there’s a secret power behind the scenes controlling all world events, and much more. What did all this have to do with chemtrails? From my perspective at the time, not much. Twenty years later: a great deal.

As I walked home after that meeting, my head was spinning with all the information. I felt as if a dam had burst in my mind—and I asked myself, “What if this man is right about everything?”

If even a fraction of what he had just shown and told me were true, I would have to radically change my life. In the months that followed, I started reading books, began listening to Alexander Benesch’s “Infokrieg” radio show, regularly read Freeman’s ASR blog, and, of course, eventually—around 2010—ended up on Eichelburg’s hartgeld.com.This was at a time when the awareness movement, or alternative media, was just spilling over into Germany from the English-speaking world, which back then mainly consisted of Alex Jones and David Icke, and the first websites were emerging here that reported on topics far removed from the mainstream.

I was confronted with this and similar information at my first meeting with my new mentor.

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At the same time, I banned television from my life and immersed myself in topics such as Freemasonry, the Illuminati, and global power structures. I also read books by Eckhart Tolle and began looking into Dr. Hamer’s Germanische Heilkunde, as well as many other interesting topics that usually remain hidden from the mainstream.. I had the feeling that there was an extreme amount of knowledge that I needed to catch up on as quickly as possible. Anyone who has been at a similar point in their life knows what I mean.

Without ever saying so directly, Wolfgang became a sort of mentor to me in the years that followed, showing me how the world most likely really works. Especially in the early years of my “awakening,” he gave me crucial inspiration: Wolfgang tirelessly researched the Internet, printed out texts, burned CDs, and shared information with others—with the firm belief that he could open the eyes of those around him. Unfortunately, his dedication was met with indifference by most people. I would go on to have the same experience in the years that followed.

In 2016, when I was visiting Paraguay for the first time, Wolfgang passed away. To this day, I feel a deep sense of gratitude for what he gave me, and I dedicate Tinfoil Hat Dating to him. The platform would certainly never have come into existence without the influence Wolfgang had on me.

What drives me?

It’s the countless voices over the past 20 years that have mockingly said to me: “You don’t really believe you can change anything about this system, do you?”

Maybe they’re right. Maybe I won’t be able to change anything on my own. But maybe—and this is exactly my goal—this platform can help bring the right people together. And who knows what might come of these connections. Werner Altnickel certainly didn’t think back then, on the phone, “This guy is going to launch a ‘networking platform for conspiracy theorists’ in 20 years.”

The idea and vision of Tinfoil Hat Dating

After my personal moment of awakening in 2006 After experiencing this, I quickly realized how difficult it is to find like-minded people in “offline life.” Conversations with friends I’d known for many years seemed to become increasingly trivial. The same was true for conversations with family members. I quickly had to learn that it’s better to keep my mouth shut and not talk to certain people about existentially important topics that affect us all—because otherwise, you just end up being excluded.

Many of the people you meet in life feel like NPCs—people you can’t really talk to about much more than superficialities and mainstream topics. It becomes especially difficult when, as an awakened man in your 20s or 30s, you’re looking for a partner who’s on the same level as you. I’ve met many women in my life, and the best ones were those who, at the very least, didn’t reject the topics I shared with them. Looking back now, I realize I spent a lot of time with women who, because of their “standard worldview,” weren’t a good fit for me at all.

Based on these experiences, among other things, I realized the need for a platform like Tinfoil Hat Dating. I want to help the right people find each other as early in life as possible. This applies not only to romantic relationships but also to friendships.

As someone who has spent a lot of time in other countries, I know how difficult it can often be to make connections in a new home. That’s why Tinfoil Hat Dating is designed to help everyone who has already left their home country—or will do so in the future—quickly find new friends and make new connections in their new home.

That’s why, by building the Tinfoil Hat Dating platform, I want to help conscious people around the world connect with one another—regardless of country, ethnicity, skin color, language, or gender. There are people all over the world who have realized that something isn’t quite right here. Tinfoil Hat Dating is designed to help these people connect with one another.

Why the name Tinfoil Hat Dating?

My two friends and I had lots of ideas for names when we were developing the concept for the platform in 2022—but it quickly became clear: “Tinfoil Hat Dating” contains all the relevant trigger words. Catchy, provocative, easy to understand. It’s a dating site for those whom the masses label as “tin-foil-hat wearers”—in other words, for people who have the courage to think outside the box. The name is a deliberate, almost cynical take on this derogatory term. It’s a kind of creative rebuttal to the mockery that the system throws at us.

Of course, I would never describe myself as a “tin-foil-hat wearer,” and I don’t know anyone who would seriously call themselves that either. But the term conveys exactly the sense of humor we were going for. Anyone who hears “Tinfoil Hat Dating” knows right away what it’s about.

Did you know?

Tinfoil Hat Dating is aimed at those people who are rejected by the tolerant majority of society because of their views and beliefs.

Getting Started

The platform first went live in 2023—and within six months, the community had grown to nearly 800 members. But then, with a heavy heart, I had to shut it down. The reason was our collaboration with an Indian development team: For years, they had done excellent work on other projects, but with Tinfoil Hat Dating, every update turned into a fiasco. Every change introduced new problems, and the loading times were a nightmare for users—some pages took up to 50 seconds to load. In developer terms, you could say the website was programmed into oblivion. Continuing to operate it was impossible, and rebuilding it from scratch was the only option.

The Complete Rebuild

From January 2024 to July 2025, I developed the new, current version of the platform. If I had known back then just how much effort it would take to build a platform like this on my own, maybe I would have put my energy into more profitable projects.

But today, now that the website is back online, I’m proud to have seen it through. Tinfoil Hat Dating is the most ambitious project of my online marketing career so far.

I wish everyone who signs up here inspiring encounters, valuable connections, true friendships, and meaningful relationships. And who knows—maybe I’ll even get to meet one or two of you in person someday.

Mark Etting, Founder of Tinfoil Hat Dating (Aluhutdating) – September 11, 2025

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